We have found through our years of experience that a lack of communication or not knowing how to communicate effectively is the cause of many areas of conflict for individuals and couples. “How attending premarital counseling could improve your relationship” is a common inquiry and one we are excited to share with you.
The Inability to Communicate
Many folks avoid difficult communication because they are concerned about the conflict that may follow. Others deal with conflict in a loud and ineffective manner meaning that communication is often one way as the receiver either hides in their shell of feels the need to fight back.
Before you were married, it is easy to get carried away with the height of enthusiasm because you are going through many changes in your life experiences and all of them are wonderful.
There is often not the time to think about what will happen after some of the romance begins to diminish. For some couples, this may occur after a month or two, while for others this may be much later in a relationship.
When you ask how attending premarital counseling could improve your relationship, you are given the opportunity to share your views about how you expect your marriage to work.
We will help you learn more about communication so that you can effectively discuss any matters before conflict becomes a difficult response.
Communication is not an easy process, and when it is delayed or boosted by significant conflict, the results are variable.
By agreeing to meet within the confines of our safe environment, we will help you understand your partner’s perspective, which includes their views and opinions and your respect for each other.
By helping you discuss areas such as children, finances, where you live and the influences from your families, you will quickly understand how premarital counseling could improve your relationship now and in the future.
