For the many that expect to attend marriage therapy and get to know it quickly, there are others who may not understand the benefits and expectations.
If you expect us to answer all your problems with answers, you will be wrong. We will help you learn ways to communicate more effectively, to understand conflict before it arises and to find solutions to problems before they begin.
Marriage Therapy Means Different Things for Everyone
There are many ways in which we can help you through marriage therapy. Getting to know it and how it works can be different for every individual.
Some will have high expectations and expect instant results while others will understand that it may take several discussions before counseling can be successful.
By deciding to arrange to meet with one of our professional experts you will have taken one of the largest steps necessary to help solve issues or improve your relationship in your marriage.
We expect to work with you as you learn how to understand the difficulties that exist, what caused them and the ways to solve those issues. We will not provide exact answers to every problem without your input because it is your contribution that presents most of the answers to solving the difficulties.
By undertaking marriage therapy, as you get to know it you will understand that we are not here to take sides or to prove one or both of you right or wrong. We cannot change the past, but we can assist you in thinking about what happened and where areas of conflict have caused you either to grow apart or to misunderstand each other.
Your counseling and marriage therapy is not designed to lay blame or to put right any problems that have existed in the past. It is intended to help show you both how you can communicate more effectively and to understand how to deal with the problems before they appear.
When you take the steps to arrange marriage therapy with us, you are already beginning to take some responsibility for the actions that have occurred in the past and because you wish to make your relationship stronger in the future.
