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The Best Marriage and Family Counseling counseling will teach you about the Couples Dialog, the Five Love Languages for Couples and How to have Good Arguments with Your Lover.
The Best Marriage and Family Counseling always begins with an in-person, face to face meeting that gives each of you a deeper understanding of what you’re struggling with and how your feelings get played out in your bodies. Your Body Language – the expressions on your face; the stress that comes through in you chest, arms back and legs; your tells, are always more meaningrul than the words that come pouring out of your mouth.
The Best Marriage and Family Counseling – regardless of the prior training of the therapist – will always encourage you to become more mindful of what you’re feeling in your body as you look at and speak to your partner. If for example, if you become tearful, the Best Marriage and Family Counseling will always encourage you to focus on your tears and ask you to wonder what they are saying to you and your lover. The Best Marriage and Family Counseling will always put you in touch with deeper feelings that are impossible to express in words. This emphasis on your body and how it speaks to you is the hallmark of the Best Marriage and Family Counseling.
Joseph Campbell who wrote The Power of Myth once said that there are three categories of things in life: 1) Things that have no words such as music that moves you deeply and you can’t say why. A good example is the second movement of the Bach Double Violin Concerto. 2) The words we try to put on things that have no words such as in films, plays or moving stories. 3) The tedious, boring blah blah that we inflict on each other day to to day. This is how couples get into bad fights that don’t go anywhere. Hurling meaningless, empty words at each other like bullets is how couples get into bad fights that leave them feeling hopeless, exhausted and depressed.
The Best Marriage and Family Counseling will help you to pay attention to each other’s bodies which is always more powerful than words in conveying what you’re feeling and going through deep inside. The Best Marriage and Family Counseling will always encourage you to be mindful of what’s going on in your body as you try to communicate with your lover. For example, if one of you cries, the Best Marriage and Family Counseling will ask: “If your tears had words, what would they be saying to you and to your partner?” The Best Marriage and Family Counseling will encourage you to take in each other’s body language and strive to be compassionately curios about what your partner is feeling and going through deep inside.
Above all, the Best Marriage and Family Counseling will encourage and challenge you to imagine what it must really be like to walk in your partner’s shoes and remind you that this compassionate curiosity and imagining has virtually nothing to do with agreeing with your lover.
